There's a lot music can tell you about a person, from their emotions to the way they think, the sounds and words people choose to listen to over and over again certainly depend on who they are. I mean, I think it's fair to say that someone who has a picture perfect family and a great amount of self-confidence is unlikely to be blasting Aneurysm by Nirvana or Taylor Swift's 10 minute version of All Too Well. So, why do people listen to the songs they do?
I mentioned in my last entry that I am infatuated with Mac Miller. Well, do you wanna know a secret? In my first year of high school, I met someone who I really, really liked, and as we're doing that whole "Get to Know You" thing and asking each other questions, he asks me who my favorite music artist is. The truth is, I didn't know. Most of the music I listened to (at that time) was whatever was on the radio and whatever my family listened to. However, I did remember that he loved hip-hop, so I chose the first hip-hop artist that came to mind.
From there, I started streaming Mac Miller's music more and more. At first, it was because I was nervous he might be like "Name every single song in order on The Divine Feminine," but I actually did grow quite fond of Mac's music. I loved his ability to play with his voice and create music you can dance to, like What's the Use?, or a song you can fall in love to, like Love Affair. I loved the way his emotions came out through the music, from fun-loving to melancholy, he reached some of the deepest parts of my heart and buried himself there. Even now, his voice is enough to make me feel less alone.
I think what makes music so entrancing is it's ability to give someone a safe space to feel their feelings, even if it's just in their own head. No one needs to know that you've listened to the same song 10 times in a row because it's the only one that feels right to you. Even if you're playing music with someone else present, you can still have that connection to the song even if they don't. Plus, that song will still be there six years later when you need it, and you can find yourself floating back to the place you were when you first heard it.
So, maybe the reason why people listen to the songs they do is because those songs are the one's that make them feel seen, and I think that's what people want most. I know I do.
-Celeste